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Originally Posted by Alvy
(Post 465433)
Mr Wedding before you leave again I have a question. Why did you leave back in 2016? You haven’t posted since then until now. Was it only because you disagreed with Sam about the thread that went political? I mean you and him disagree politically I guess but why leave our forum completely?
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That's a valid question Alvy. I guess for me at the time, the double standard of who can get political and who cannot on a site where the rules stated clearly that no political discussions were allowed, having a moderator post time and again his political views, (back then Sam would sprinkle politics here and there when he felt like the need), whereas I posted my view in counter to his and was promptly banned for 1 year. I thought that was ridiculous, childish and unacceptable. It pissed me off for a day or so, then I moved on.
When my banning time was up, I did lurk on this site for quite awhile and honestly Alvy, it was brutal. I did not like the 20% on this site that:
a) liked to denigrate newbies by making them look stupid, even if they asked a dumb question, this site was not very hospitable.
b) the followers of the denigrator (and it was always the same guy, JMech) who would pile on
c) the complicity of the rest
Now granted, quite a few good members left this site, making the same complaints as I am now. For me, it just wasn't a community, or at least the kind of community I would be proud to be part of.
So, I would pop in here every now and then, look around and read some stuff. At times I was still in disbelief at some stuff on here, but hey...I wasn't a member and was in no way complicit. Heck, I even read a few posts a few months ago when they were talking about me, I think I was called a tool back then too...and laughed. Being called a tool by certain kinda of people is awesome. Seemed clear that I rubbed some the wrong way...on the internet of all places, who knew that could happen????
Anyway, having said all that I did miss quite a few people I enjoyed talking with, can't remember which is which anymore as it's been so long. I remember a few really good guys on here, some maybe are still here, some for sure not.
Anyway Alvy, that's my story in short form.