I'm going to be brutally honest, I don't know nor do I want to know the details. It is what it is. Take a while to get over it and then get on
www.match.com and find a replacement. BTDT. Best thing I ever did. Seems like people, men and women think that the world revolves around them and that they are irreplaceable. Sorry but if you walk out in front of a truck and get killed life goes on. I'll bet you'll find someone more compatible and be happier in the long run. Wish you all the best.